New Horizons and The
Frederick City Police Demonstrate Kids And Kops Can Talk
Anxiety and fear ran high with no space for release as a room
full of people, mostly adults, awaited the van load of kids from Frederick’s
Housing Authority. Gathered at Dublin Roasters Coffee House for the fifth and
final in a series of Coffee House Conversations On Race Relations, this one was
to be the highlight in a succession of New Horizons Support Network, Inc.
sponsored programs, designed to build an enhanced community unity in Frederick,
Maryland.
But this program’s agenda was
fraught with concern. “Kids and Kops In Conversation” was the scheduled
presentation for the day. But could these two, “kids and kops,” ordinarily polarized,
often warring factions, even come close to a conversation with civility? No one
there was certain it could be accomplished.
For months New Horizons had
been meeting with members of the Frederick City Police, planning this event. Kids and Kops In Conversation was to be a
challenge but with the four other Coffee House Conversations On Race Relations successfully achieving their goals, the organizing team for this event
was ready for the test.
With Brandon Chapman, Youth
Activities Coordinator for the Housing Authority, in charge of bringing the
kids and Captain Jason Keckler responsible for recruiting the police, the planning team members still found themselves being apprehensive, facing into the wind. Herman
King, one of the organizers and a football coach at Linganore High School, laid
out some of the hard places that might need to be encountered.
With an incisive eye,
based on decades of coaching youth in Frederick, not only in sports but, even
more dramatically, on how people, especially young African American males,
might safely interact with police, Herman had prepared the group with
guidelines on how to openly address issues that potentially end up in violence.
Herman’s “Ten Things Kids Might Want To Ask Kops” painfully summarized some of
the most pressing.
Questions for the police such as: 1.What gets cops so aggravated that they get physical; 2. What
can be done to end deaths of black men in the custody of law enforcement?; 3. How
can I be assured that my race will not work against me when dealing with law
enforcement? were on the money as topics that would need to be addressed, at
some point, if a genuine success for the Kids and Kops in Conversation endeavor
could succeed.
As the
program began, once the honored guests, the van load of kids from the projects
finally arrived, almost an hour late, the single most important item necessary to
discuss was the hopes and the fears of the group, especially the latter, the
fears for what lay ahead.
The program
began with a moment of silence, recognizing the pain of recent violence; the
murder only the week before of the Ice Cream Man in nearby Lucas Village and just days
before the racist-driven murders of nine African American church goers in South Carolina in their
place of worship. Obviously, pain and fear set the underlying tone for what
this group was now embarking upon.
Anastasia
Rosen-Jones, Executive Director of the New Horizons Support Network, Inc.,
officially opened the program with a near-tearful apology to the African
Americans present that people that look like her, Caucasian, were murdering
people who look like them. Then the conversation really got started with people
coming up to the front stage to share their fears and their hopes for what lay
ahead. For the adults, the single greatest fear was that the group in
attendance would simply not be able to talk. For the kids they were too shy –
or fearful – to even share what they feared, or hoped.
But
surprise of all surprises, miracle of miracles, everyone did talk. With goodwill
and courage, the attendees of the event made it through, discovering in the
process that kids and kops could talk in Frederick, Maryland!
They had
made a beginning. The conversations actually had been relatively smooth going,
once started. A rite of passage had occurred for these “kids and kops;” they
could just hang out, person-to-person at a neighborhood coffee shop. What made
it turn out that way?
A
pledge, carried out, perfectly, by the Frederick City Police, organized and
orchestrated by Captain Jason Keckler, and the other adults present; facilitators,
volunteers, parents -- and -- the voices of the youth who had the courage to speak
and be heard. And they were!
